STOP SHOVELING YOUR HARD EARNED MONEY OUT THE DOOR AND START BUILDINGWEALTH!

Getting yourself debt-free, you will be able to free up your most powerful wealth building tool, YOUR INCOME.  Building wealth takes dollars. Building wealth takes less expenses and more income. When you stop shoveling your paychecks out the door to credit card companies, car payments, personal loans, student loans, past due medical bills, you will have money to do things like saving for emergencies, remodeling the house, taking vacations that won’t follow you home and investing for retirement --or better yet: actually retiring!

Think about it. If you are currently carrying a $10,000 credit card balance at an annual interest rate of 24% you are literally flushing $2400 a year away for NOTHING. That’s $200 a month! It’s just money that the credit card is taking from you. If you are able to pay that card off, those dollars can be reallocated and spent where and when you want.  Most Americans today think that $10,000 of credit card debt and two car payments in the household are ‘normal’.  This ‘normal’ is making the credit card companies rich. Last year it added up to them earning $18.5 BILLION dollars in interest charges. American’s habits of charging things like gas, groceries, clothing, mani’s/pedi’s, tools, car repairs, etc added up to a whopping Trillion Dollars last year. It’s time for a shift in mindset, behavior AND habits.

I teach my clients to use the debt snowball technique once we establish their monthly budget. 

How does the debt snowball work?  Its simple. You list your debts (other than your mortgage) smallest to largest by amount owed.  Don’t worry about the interest rates, just list them! ANY and all extra money goes to the smallest debt on the list each month until it’s paid off. Why do I not suggest you pay off the highest interest card first?  I agree that mathematically it’s correct that you would pay off the highest interest card/loan first BUT this is not about math.  It's about behavior.  If it were simply a mathematical issue you would have already done the simple math and realized that there wasn't enough coming in to pay off what was charged or bought.  Using the snowball and paying off the smallest debt first gives you instant success and you can see and feel the results of ridding yourself of a debt. Once you do that with one, you will want to continue until it’s ALL gone!  There are plenty of tools that can to show the efforts of this technique. For more information on how a financial wellness coach can help you gain back control of your finances visit my website at www.sickofthehustle.com

How to use the 'first car' as a great financial lesson with your kids….

There are many 'teachable' moments in terms of 'finances' that we can use in guiding our children. The 'first car' is one of them.   Putting your kids on a 'commission' at an early age and paying them once a week for their chore list,  instills that they earn when they work.  They gain a sense of 'ownership' and 'pride" in their efforts. They get to watch their efforts accumulate and they can set goals for how they will use THEIR money.

I wrote a blog post just about one year ago and TODAY there is a new car sitting in my driveway! My son Alex had diligently saved HIS money for his first car. I had established early on (age 12) that I was not buying him his car (same with his sister 5 years ago so he knew I was serious) I will 'match' what he saves up to $3000. I had to set a threshold, because Alex would have worked and saved diligently to get the car he wants which could have turned out to be a $14,000 'first car'.   Let's face it, when it's their funds they are using, they make more calculated decisions, versus when we are picking up the tab. So he sifted and sorted over the past three months to find what his money could get him. He found a 2009 Dodge Avenger with just over 130,000 miles and got it for $1000 under book value at $4000! (trust me when I tell you he seemed more concerned about not using up his entire 10 years of savings in one spending spree!) When we let our kids know that we aren't paying for all they want because we already provide what they 'need' they may at first seem slighted, but they come around eventually.

Through this process HE learned patience. HE learned goal setting. HE learned contentment. HE learned to negotiate. HE learned to shop and research.  And most importantly HE learned he was capable.

I believe these qualities are so important and if I can use the 'first car' as a way of invoking them, it's a win win for both of us! Have you thought about milestones that you can use to raise financially responsible young adults?